Tuesday, 6 September 2016

A hundred years ago women in the UK were not allowed to vote and some went through hell to get the law changed.

This week my daughter (who will be 18 in October) received a letter ordering her to register to vote or face a fine of £60.

Does the law have to take the stance of 'enemy' at every turn?

Tuesday, 23 August 2016

Grey Hair

I have been blonde now for about 15 years.  I've loved it.  I think I looked so much better than my mousy brown that always caused me problems.  We didn't have a great relationship.  Having my hair dyed seemed to leave it more manageable.  It behaved itself more.

Then, a few months ago I found I was getting thoroughly bored at the hairdressers.  It's franchised in a hotel that has that 'oh so modern' dreary brown decor and I find the whole atmosphere depressing. 

I decided there were too many women of my age with dyed blonde hair.

I no longer liked the thought of all those chemicals going on my head.

I mentioned going grey to my hairdresser.  You'd have thought I'd suggested having my face tattooed.  She was dead against it, listing all the problems, how it would age me.

I told her looking younger wasn't one of my aims.  I might have been speaking in an alien language, the incomprehension on her face.

So, I have decided to grow the blonde out.  I realise it's going to look like s*** for some time, it's going to be painful and I am open to the possibility I might run screaming back to my hairdresser begging for help but for now, three months in, this is how far I've got:-

I have a feeling hats and scarves are going to feature largely in my wardrobe for the next year or so.

Andi xx

Sunday, 21 August 2016

You know, I just feel like writing again.  How are you?  It's been an up and down couple of years.  I've been off the meds and then back on them again.  Now I'm off them again and waiting to see if I survive after the 5 months it takes for them to clear my system.  5 months is when I crumpled last time and was in the depths of darkness.  All I wanted to do was stay in bed all day and escape the word.  I want to get through it this time.  Mental health is just SO MUCH FUN!

Last year I lost my darling Dad.  He'd been on kidney dialysis for about 15 years and his health had slowly deteriorated during that time.  He was disabled and sick for a number of years leading up to the end.  He died on the blue moon of July '15 with me and Mum by his bedside.  Since then, I've had a number of signs and 'messages' to let me know he's OK.  I don't know if I've ever mentioned that I sometimes have contact with the spirit world.  The night Dad died I 'saw' my grandparents come to take him home.  He was a little boy again, healthy and happy, so I'm happy.  He always made me feel I was the 'apple of his eye'.  I miss him so much.

Without Dad I felt I didn't want to face a normal Christmas last year so my darling family took me to New York instead.  We were there all over Christmas and what was in danger of being one of the most difficult Christmases of my life, turned out to be one of the best.  All thanks to husband and children.

This year I have plunged myself into painting (pictures, not the house).  I'm not very good but with tips and guidance from artists on YouTube I am at least getting want I want to say down on paper.

Forgotten how posting on Blogger works.  The font seems to be different each side of the pic.  What's going on there?  I don't know.

Anyway, I have continued to read your blogs, even if I don't comment much.  Life is a challenge of ups and downs, isn't it?  We all have our own way of surviving the downs and enjoying the ups.  I sincerely hope your life has had more ups and downs.

I just feel like writing and putting down my ramblings.  Hope you don't mind.

If there's anyone out there...

Andi xx

Tuesday, 18 February 2014


I like to think that my husband and I have a small degree of common sense between us, but this weekend has caused me to think again.

Our boiler broke. 

For five days we were without heat or hot water.

We had to cope with washing in a freezing bathroom with water hot from the kettle.

I cancelled an evening meeting last night because, quite frankly, I wasn't confident how fresh I smelled.

It wasn't until this morning, day six, that husband turned round and said,

'Would it help to switch the immersion on?'


(a clean) Andi xx

Wednesday, 5 February 2014

How times have changed

A friend of mine posted this on his Facebook page this morning.
  I loved it, thought you would too, so I'm sharing it here.

Andi xx

Sunday, 5 January 2014

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year everyone!
Hope 2014 has started well for you all. 
My Christmas plans hit the fan.
At the beginning of December I was SO organised. 
I even started getting crafty and making things.
Cinnamon heart ornaments:
I hung them in garlands over the fireplace and the scent was wonderful.
I have the recipe but not the credit.  I'll try to find it before next December.
I also sewed two snowmen mug rugs from a free pattern by The Crafty Gemini.
The first was announced as 'the practice one'.  It went a little wonky:
The second came out better:
 I was happily sewing away and planning other projects for presents, when disaster struck:
This is my index finger after a trip to the minor injuries unit at the local hospital.  A split-second laps in concentration when cutting fabric and the rotary cutter slipped off the edge of the ruler and ran along the side of my finger. 
I don't mind admitting I said words I didn't know existed.
This was in the same week as my dishwasher decided to go on holiday.  A week's worth of washing up one-handed.
Then the heating broke down three days before Christmas.
Oh, the best laid plans of mice and men. 
 No cards were written, no mince pies were made, presents were bought instead of made.
'Christmas hasn't arrived at the Ledbetter's'
I'm not telling you all this to get sympathy (well, just a little over the finger) but to let you know this year I'm not going to get caught out like that and at the moment I'm well on track for Christmas 2014!
Have a great year folks.
Andi xx

Saturday, 7 December 2013


Hello, is anyone still there?

Firstly, apologies for being absent for so long.  Almost the whole year.  I am alive and well but my energy and enthusiasm for writing my blog disappeared.  I have continued to read your blogs with interest and getting lots of inspiration from them. Thank you for helping me along with a few projects!

Not a very remarkable year has passed and there's not much to tell, but I thought you might be interested in seeing some pics from the cruise I went on in October to Norway.  What a beautiful country with breath-taking scenery.  It was cold, but really not as cold as you'd think (especially wearing thermals).

This is the kind of view we had most days from the ship.
Cold, clean, fresh air.

When we crossed the Arctic Circle we were offered an Arctic baptism.  This is me about to be baptised by King Neptune.  He is about to pour a ladle-full of ice cubes down my back.  It was a shock, even though it was expected.  When I got back down to my cabin to change into dry clothes about twenty ice cubes scattered across the floor.

A Sami man in traditional costume and with a real live reindeer!

Imagine having to survive an Arctic winter when this is your home.

The northern-most post box in Europe

Tromsk cathedral
Built in the 1960's, a surprisingly beautiful building to come out of a decade not known for its inspiring architecture.
We were fortunate to be visiting while the choir was rehearsing.  I have a video but couldn't get blogger to upload it.

This is Mikael.  He spent the evening telling us about making natural medicines from the plants that grow locally.  He also taught us how to Yoik, which is the ancient Norwegian way of singing and, no, I don't have a recording of our efforts.
This kind of singing has only been allowed again since the 1950's after having been banned for hundreds of years by the Christian church because of its connections with the ancient, pagan ways.  The church will still not allow it to be used on its premises, but we were free to spend a pleasant hour or so stretching our vocal chords.

Here's something you might not have known - the reindeer that pull Santa's sleigh are FEMALE.
Yes, the male reindeer have their antlers in the summer.  Females grow them in for the winter.  So Donna and Blitzen (and Rudolph.  I guess the lyrics to THAT song should be changed) are GIRLIES.

This was a very special, magical and spiritual trip for me.  I am so glad I had the opportunity to visit.
Another post soon.  I want to show you my crafting efforts.
Hope all your Christmas preparations are going well.